YOUR EX-SPOUSE HAS MOVED ON

 There are individuals who harbor desires for their ex-spouses to struggle, wish for reconciliation, or even publicly declare their exes need their help and regret the divorce or separation. These actions often stem from a denial of their own contributions to the marital breakdown, an attempt to elevate themselves, and a hidden desire for public validation of their narrative.

The reality is, a successful divorce or separation is far healthier than a "unsuccessful" relationship built on lies and dishonesty. Continuing a facade of happiness in a deeply flawed union ultimately harms everyone involved. Embracing the end of such a relationship, even if painful, paves the way for genuine peace and individual growth.

For those who persistently try to prove their own blamelessness and assert their ex-spouses' desperation to reconcile, it is highly recommended to seek professional help from a psychologist. This can assist in addressing underlying issues, processing the emotional complexities of divorce, and fostering a healthier perspective on past relationships.