STOP USING AN IMAGINARY HERO TO MASK YOUR BULLYING

 Love is not something you can buy or sell. When people place conditions on loving you—saying things like, *"If you are who you truly are, we can't love you,"* or *"If you want our love, you must do whatever we want"*—that is not love. That is control and a desire for power.

The worst approach is when people constantly compare you to someone else 24/7, trying to force you into a competition, or threatening to replace you. The answer to this behavior is simple: **They do not love you; they love having a person under their control.** They want a puppet to achieve what they couldn't achieve themselves, or to act out the things they couldn't do.

For a long time, I have noticed an "advertisement" around me trying to make me believe there is a powerful force watching and controlling me, expecting me to behave exactly as it likes. Deep down, I know there is no one there. They are desperately trying to prove this force exists, and even though I do not care what they want me to believe, these distressing thoughts are nonstop.

Through bullying, verbal abuse, harassment, and defamation, they have created a powerful, rich "statue" based on my own book characters. They insist this abusive, imaginary person is everywhere—following me, controlling me, and disapproving of what I say and do.

It seems they are trying to set up a role model for their children without putting in the actual effort. Instead, they bully and scare someone else to teach their kids.

This reminds me of a video I saw on a social media reel:

A mother was trying to feed her child, but the child refused to eat. The mother then tried to feed her husband. When he pretended to refuse, the mother slapped him, and he quickly ate his food. The child, watching this and fearing he would be hit next, quickly ate his food too.

Bullies who claim to be parents—specifically mothers—have been using these exact tactics for years to control their children, spouses, and teenagers. They have tried to control me by pretending these harassments come either from my ex-husband or from their imaginary hero. For a long time, they even tried to pull my daughters into this abuse, pretending that my daughters were the ones who didn't want me doing this or that.

The Reality Behind the Harassment

While these bullies attempt to create harassment through verbal abuse, financial pressure, false advertising, defamation, and control, the reality is different. They are a bunch of puppets being used for political and economic purposes.

It is entirely unclear why they think bullying me will help them achieve their political goals. It seems they use parents and these puppets simply to make me shut up, hoping I will not talk about what they have done and what they continue to do.

SYSTEMIC CORRUPTION, MEDICAL MALPRACTICE, AND UNETHICAL EXPERIMENTATION

 Medical science was created to help patients and improve all aspects of life, including health. However, it can be incredibly dangerous and abusive if used the wrong way. A clear example of this is the story of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde—where a normal doctor experimenting with a drug changes him.

​I personally am a victim of these types of experimental tests and drugs without my permission. One erased my memories, and for years they tried to replace them with lies and inaccurate memories. Another made me suffer from pain and left me practically disabled for ten years until I stopped taking them. They used me like an animal to test their experiments and drugs, and my complaints and objections only came back with more harassment, abuse, and pain.

​When human rights let a telecommunication system do 24/7 wrong advertising, trying to make a lie version of me to the public—even using hospitals, doctors, police, and the legal system—who can defend my violated rights for 20 years?

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HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY

 * **To the Sole Providers:** To the mothers who raised their children alone, carrying the weight of two worlds on their shoulders without complaint.

 * **To the Forsaken:** To the mothers living in nursing homes, feeling the sting of betrayal from the very children they nurtured, yet still holding love in their hearts.

 * **To the Misunderstood:** To those who faced disrespect in exchange for their unconditional love, and to those who were left behind or passed away in loneliness.

 * **To the Sacrificed:** To the women who gave up their dreams and lives for their loved ones, only to be met with ingratitude.

 * **To the Judged:** To the moms who endure the cold stares of strangers and the accusations of a public that doesn't know their story or their struggle.

**To the Warriors of Spirit**

"A mother’s strength isn’t just in what she does, but in what she survives with her grace intact."

 * **To the Advocates:** To the strong mothers who stand tall for their rights and refuse to be silenced.

 * **To the Unfazed:** To those who ignore the labels society tries to pin on them and choose to live their lives with freedom and authenticity.

 * **To the Patient Observers:** To the moms who let the "gossip mouths" talk their nonsense, knowing that their truth is theirs alone, and quietly wait for gossips' turn.

**Happy Mother’s Day.** Your strength is seen, your sacrifices are noted, and your worth is immeasurable. Today, we celebrate the unbreakable spirit of every mother who has endured, survived, and continued to love.

MY HOME & MY CREATIONS ARE NOT YOUR HARASSMENT TOOLS

I want to make one thing very clear: do not bring family disputes or personal grievances into my home. I am not responsible for the dynamics between mother-in-laws and daughter-in-laws, nor am I a party to any conflicts involving your sons.

It has come to my attention that a group is using one of the characters from my books—a mother-in-law who is suspicious of her daughter-in-law’s past—to fuel their own theories and behaviors. It is deeply concerning that individuals who have not even purchased my work seem to know every word and are now misusing these characters for their own ends.

There is a clear pattern here. Whenever I post and tag the relevant authorities, the immediate reaction from these groups confirms their involvement in these ongoing issues. This interference in both my business and my personal life, characterized by nonstop harassment and the creation of baseless theories, must end.

My creative work is not a script for your personal performances or harassment. I am calling for an end to the theft of my characters and the persistent intrusion into my life.

WHOSE SIDE ARE YOU ON? A QUESTION FOR HOUSING DECISION-MAKERS

 In major metropolitan areas, housing remains a persistent and high-stakes challenge. There are thousands of young people who cannot afford to enter the market, and thousands of elderly citizens who struggle to keep up with rising rents. It is encouraging that the government is examining this issue, but recent interventions in cities like Toronto and Vancouver suggest a shift in the burden rather than a total solution.

While decreasing property values and lower rents are celebrated by one half of the population, we must ask: Has the government considered the decades of labor invested by the other half?

Current policies seem to have moved the financial strain from tenants to owners, rather than resolving the root causes. We are not discussing the top 5% of billionaires or lottery winners; we are talking about the **95% of homeowners** who fall into two categories:

The Long-term Savers: Those who have spent their lives paying off a mortgage, viewing their home as their primary investment and safety net for retirement.

 The Small Investors: Those who worked to afford a modest secondary property specifically to live off the rental income in their later years.

When housing "solutions" result in a constant reduction of property value, they effectively devalue the life's work of the middle class. Resolving the housing crisis should not be a matter of switching pressure from one side to the other.

The Critical Question:

When these decisions were being made, was the focus on the whole population, or just one-half?

A true resolution should not involve making one demographic suffer to benefit another. If the strategy is simply to win the votes of tenants while sacrificing the security of owners, it isn't a long-term fix—it is a redistribution of hardship. Real leadership requires a balanced approach that protects the investments of hardworking homeowners while still creating paths for new buyers and renters.

WEAPONIZING CARE

 Decades ago, many men preferred having a "weak" woman by their side to ensure their own manhood was highlighted by comparison. Over the years, this mentality has shifted as women have consistently demonstrated their immense capability and strength. History proves that women are more than capable of raising children alone and working shoulder-to-shoulder with men in every field.

​Despite this, a lingering bias remains. Some men still prefer that the women in their lives remain dependent on them, clinging to the outdated belief that a woman cannot truly survive without a man.

​It is important to distinguish between capability and preference:

• ​Natural Desire for Care: Many women appreciate a level of dependency as a part of a healthy relationship. Having a partner who wants to provide and care for you can be a beautiful dynamic.

• ​The Fallacy of Incapability: The problem arises when society assumes that if a woman achieves something, it was only possible because a man was behind her. This belief minimizes female intelligence and agency.

​The reality is that while many women can live without a man, they choose to have a caring partner in their lives. However, the moment "care" transforms into a claim of gender superiority, it becomes toxic. When a man uses a woman's willingness to be cared for as a way to point out her "weakness," he is no longer a provider—he is weaponizing her trust.

​The Bottom Line: Being cared for is a choice we make, not a favor we owe. When support is used as a tool for suppression, it is no longer care; it is control.