WE ARE WOMEN

It's time to educate the public that not every move a single, divorced, or separated woman makes is about trying to impress a man. Today's women if not in a better situation , are equally capable and successful as men and deserve respect and recognition.

While attraction between men and women is natural, it's unfair to assume every action a single woman takes is designed to attract a man. This thinking is similar to judging a man's every move as an act to impress the public eye. Women's choices and accomplishments should be valued and recognized on their own merit, not constantly analyzed through the lens of seeking male attention.

Many men may feel offended by this article, but it's essential to recognize that we're in an era of equality. Not every aspect of a woman's life, such as her health, weight, or appearance, is about seeking male attention. Women are now candidates for presidency and other high positions, and their involvement in politics or public gatherings shouldn't be assumed to be about seeking a man. It's time to shift our perspective and acknowledge women's agency and capabilities beyond their relationships with men.

This article isn't diminishing the importance of healthy relationships, but rather warning the public to stop judging women based on their appearance or active participation in society. It's a call to recognize and respect women's autonomy, accomplishments, and choices beyond their physical appearance or social interactions. Let's focus on valuing and empowering women as individuals, rather than making assumptions or judgments based on superficial criteria.

As a writer, I acknowledge some men's perspectives on wanting to keep their related women far from  attracting unwanted attention from other men. However, imposing such limitations and judgments on women can hinder their success and pressure them to stay in unhealthy relationships simply to avoid public judgment.

In the twenty-first century, women have more pressing concerns and important issues to focus on than constantly addressing accusations and labels about their relationship status. 

If the public is not educated about the single women struggling to respond to harassing questions , tomorrow's women in positions of power will stop harassment and judgment. By occupying leadership roles, they will not be immune to the investigation and bias that comes with being a woman who is unattached.