STOP USING AN IMAGINARY HERO TO MASK YOUR BULLYING

 Love is not something you can buy or sell. When people place conditions on loving you—saying things like, *"If you are who you truly are, we can't love you,"* or *"If you want our love, you must do whatever we want"*—that is not love. That is control and a desire for power.

The worst approach is when people constantly compare you to someone else 24/7, trying to force you into a competition, or threatening to replace you. The answer to this behavior is simple: **They do not love you; they love having a person under their control.** They want a puppet to achieve what they couldn't achieve themselves, or to act out the things they couldn't do.

For a long time, I have noticed an "advertisement" around me trying to make me believe there is a powerful force watching and controlling me, expecting me to behave exactly as it likes. Deep down, I know there is no one there. They are desperately trying to prove this force exists, and even though I do not care what they want me to believe, these distressing thoughts are nonstop.

Through bullying, verbal abuse, harassment, and defamation, they have created a powerful, rich "statue" based on my own book characters. They insist this abusive, imaginary person is everywhere—following me, controlling me, and disapproving of what I say and do.

It seems they are trying to set up a role model for their children without putting in the actual effort. Instead, they bully and scare someone else to teach their kids.

This reminds me of a video I saw on a social media reel:

A mother was trying to feed her child, but the child refused to eat. The mother then tried to feed her husband. When he pretended to refuse, the mother slapped him, and he quickly ate his food. The child, watching this and fearing he would be hit next, quickly ate his food too.

Bullies who claim to be parents—specifically mothers—have been using these exact tactics for years to control their children, spouses, and teenagers. They have tried to control me by pretending these harassments come either from my ex-husband or from their imaginary hero. For a long time, they even tried to pull my daughters into this abuse, pretending that my daughters were the ones who didn't want me doing this or that.

The Reality Behind the Harassment

While these bullies attempt to create harassment through verbal abuse, financial pressure, false advertising, defamation, and control, the reality is different. They are a bunch of puppets being used for political and economic purposes.

It is entirely unclear why they think bullying me will help them achieve their political goals. It seems they use parents and these puppets simply to make me shut up, hoping I will not talk about what they have done and what they continue to do.