FROM STRIVER TO BULLY: THE PATH OF AN UNSUCCESSFUL SABOTEUR

 Many individuals achieve success through hard work and a deep commitment to their knowledge. However, their efforts are often overlooked by those who mistakenly believe that success is a matter of luck, not a result of diligence and skill.

Successful people often reach the top of their fields by taking calculated risks, thinking creatively, and acting on opportunities that others may have overlooked or been afraid to pursue. Yet, despite these clear displays of effort, they are often dismissed by less successful people who attribute their achievements to mere "luck." This frequently comes with accusations of having special connections or relationships, and a refusal to acknowledge the hard work that happens behind the scenes.

This behavior is clearly rooted in jealousy. It's a way for people to shift the blame for their own failures onto someone else, and who is a better target than a person who has already achieved their goals?

The tragedy is that the energy these people spend on fighting and sabotaging successful individuals could have been used to improve their own lives. In this misguided pursuit, they cross a line, trying to block others from opportunities like justice, health care, jobs, and even relationships. In doing so, they are attempting to "heal" their own feelings of failure by making others fail, too. They transform from someone striving for a goal into a bully who will do anything to stop others from reaching theirs.

Unaware that their harassment and sabotage are becoming a routine part of their lives, they lose themselves in this cycle. This destructive pattern can even be passed down through generations, perpetuating a routine of tearing others down rather than building themselves up.



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