THE ARCHITECTURE OF ENVY

 There is a specific segment of society composed of individuals who, burdened by their own professional failures or personal stagnations, choose to weaponize their resentment. Driven by an inability to achieve their goals—whether it is securing employment or attaining a certain lifestyle—they redirect their internal anger toward others.

Since finding success as a writer and blogger, and particularly after receiving several awards for my books, I have become a target for this displaced aggression. I have faced persistent discrimination and threats aimed at silencing my achievements. These individuals attempt to dictate my life, telling me not to mention my awards, my blog, or my plans to move. They seek to control my narrative, often by fabricating past relationships with me or imagining ties that simply do not exist.

In reality, while they occupy themselves with these fantasies, they are actively attempting to tear down the lives of others. They seem to believe that through harassment and systemic control, they can find a release for their own bitterness. Furthermore, their desperation for control extends to the intellectual realm; some even try to pretend that every original idea or thought you produce actually belongs to someone else. In an extreme attempt to undermine my autonomy, some have even gone as far as creating an imaginary persona, trying to convince the public that this fictional individual is the "main brain" and primary supporter behind my work.Even as they exert control over various aspects of your life, they remain unsatisfied, unable to tolerate the fact that you possess a unique approach or a fresh perspective. 

I consistently recommend that such individuals seek professional psychiatric help to uncover the root of this discriminatory and often racist behavior. Most often, this conduct stems from childhood neglect or deep-seated ignorance—a failure that follows them into adulthood, leading them to believe that hurting others is a cure for their own pain. It is not.

I have personally suffered within this toxic environment for years. It is important to note the following:

These mentally disturbed individuals even believe that through abuse and pressure, they can force me to maintain past relationships that I have willingly and decisively ended. It is unclear why they insist on my involvement with people from whom I have cut ties for logical and personal reasons. Clearly, they suffer from a profound lack of love and a sense of unhealthy dependency, mistakenly believing they can find fulfillment by interfering in my life.

The path to healing is through self-reflection and professional help, not through the harassment of those who have worked hard to build their own success.