STOP JUDING !

Don't Judge a Book by Its Cover: The Dangers of Premature Judgment in Relationships

The age-old idiom cautions us against judging others based on superficial information. Yet, in today's society, people often rush to judge couples, scrutinizing their relationships, marriages, and divorces. This judgmental attitude can escalate into harassment, with individuals attempting to assign blame and create their own version of the truth.

Victims may seek legal advice, only to face interrogative questioning that feels like a trial. Even deceased family members are not spared, as judgmental individuals dig into their past, seeking evidence of guilt or wrongdoing.

This emotional abuse is often masked by seemingly genuine concerns, such as:

1. Religious or moral obligations

2. Care for children's well-being

3. Financial interests

However, beneath this facade lies:

1. Low self-esteem

2. Insecurity

3. Fear of relationship instability

4. Unresolved personal guilt

By projecting their own problems onto others who disagree or aren't part of their intergation circle , these individuals perpetuate a toxic cycle of harassment and judgment.