ABUSIVE MISUSE OF APPLICANT VS. RESPONDENT

 The idiom "You show yours, I'll show mine" is traditionally used to suggest a mutual exchange or revelation, often in the context of sharing cultural practices, traditions, or personal perspectives. It implies a reciprocal and usually amicable sharing between two parties.

Unfortunately, this idiom takes a dark and abusive turn in some contentious divorce cases, particularly when framed within the legal context of "Applicant vs. Respondent." Instead of a healthy exchange, it becomes a vicious battleground where each party attempts to exaggerate the other's weaknesses and failures, aiming to prove that the opposing side was solely responsible for the breakup of the marriage.

While presenting evidence and facts based on truth is crucial and valuable in a court of law, the abusive method was described goes far beyond legitimate legal strategy. This toxic approach often involves attacking the other side's culture, nationality, race, fashion, and even food. Such tactics are not just inappropriate; they are clear signs of harassment, discrimination, and racism.

This shocking perversion of the legal process twists what should be a straightforward search for facts into a breeding ground for  prejudice and personal attacks.