MISAPPLICATION OF ACCEPTING CONSEQUENCES OF OUR DECISIONS

 In everyday life, we have to make decisions, and they come with consequences—some in our favor and some not. This is part of adulthood, an age where we accept the outcomes of our actions. We make hundreds of decisions, big and small, every day: what to eat, when to get out of bed, who to hang out with, which job to apply for, and even who we live with.

Adults understand this journey and chart their own course. However, what is unacceptable is when others misuse these decisions for their benefit. They try to lead and push you down a path they prefer. For instance:

- If you resign from a job, they act as if you should never work in that company or industry again.

- If you immigrate to another country, they may not consider you a citizen of your origin country or allow you to use their products.

- If you go through separation or divorce, they assume you should never enter another relationship.

This list grows whenever those competing with you take advantage of your past decisions, lifestyle, eating habits, choice of friends and places, travel destinations, and even your beliefs. Their approach is abusive and violates freedom and human rights. Unfortunately, the law often fails to stop or warn them. They pressure you to conform to their preferences—what to wear, watch, eat, and how to live. If you disagree, they use their power, position, money, and so-called "team" to harass, control, and bully you.

This unseen bullying often comes from those who consider themselves invisible, unsuccessful, socially isolated, or simply play the victim. It's essential to recognize and stand against such behavior, advocating for our right to make choices without undue interference.